{"id":1481,"date":"2016-03-07T11:15:12","date_gmt":"2016-03-07T16:15:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/?p=1481"},"modified":"2016-03-07T12:40:12","modified_gmt":"2016-03-07T17:40:12","slug":"where-the-names-come-from","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/?p=1481","title":{"rendered":"Where the Names Come from"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>&#8220;A rose by any other word would smell as sweet.&#8221;<\/em> &#8211; \u00a0William Shakespeare<a href=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Photos-1241.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-615\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-615\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Photos-1241-300x265.jpg\" alt=\"Picture of a rose\" width=\"300\" height=\"265\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Photos-1241-300x265.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/04\/Photos-1241.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a>&#8220;So where do you get the names for your characters?&#8221; People ask.<\/p>\n<p>The answer is, I beg, I borrow and I steal them. I also make them up.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some examples:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Desmond Sbeerin<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I love the name Desmond. We have a dear friend who lives in Dalkey, Ireland with that name. I borrowed the name from him and he was gracious enough to let me. I chose Sheerin as the family name because, while not as well-known as Murphy, or even Malone, it is an Irish name. Once again, I borrowed it. My maternal great-grandfather, Patrick Sheerin, owned a bar or &#8220;saloon&#8221;, not unlike the original Ceol agus Craic, in Boston around the turn of the last century. From the first moment I envisioned this character I knew his name was Desmond or Des Sheerin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Francesca Chiesa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Francesca Chiesa was my paternal great-grandmother, my father&#8217;s beloved Nona. I always loved the name. \u00a0I asked permission of the &#8220;senior&#8221; cousin on that side of the family to use it. I am happy to think that Nona&#8217;s name lives on in my novel.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nick Benincasa<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nick&#8217;s name is stolen, from a saint, no less. Di Benincasa is the family name of <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Catherine_of_Siena\" target=\"_blank\">St. Catherine of Sienna.<\/a>\u00a0I thought it was a perfect name for a plumber of Italian descent.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Drew\u00a0MacCullough and Lilah Patch<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Two examples of names that I made up from thin air. I wanted a Scot name as a counter-point to Brid&#8217;s name, which is Irish, and I liked the sound of MacCullough. The character was neither an &#8220;Andy&#8221; nor an &#8220;Andrew&#8221; and thus Drew McCullough was born.<\/p>\n<p>Lilah was conceived in a moment of whimsy with a nod to a dynamic lady I once worked for whose name was Lilla. I liked the way the name sounded and I think it fits this character.<\/p>\n<p>Here are some general guidelines I use when choosing a name:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Match the name to the nationality or ethnicity of the character or use names popular at the time the character was born.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t use weird names unless you want the character to be viewed as weird, in which case, a weird name fits.<\/li>\n<li>Make sure you offer an explanation if the name is unusual or out of time or place. An example of this would be Franny explaining to Nick why her name is Francesca.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I was still working in corporate training when <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/?page_id=23\" target=\"_blank\"><em>MacCullough&#8217;s Women<\/em> <\/a>was published. My boss congratulated me on my great pen name. I laughed and asked, &#8220;What do you mean?&#8221; \u00a0He said, &#8221; Your name, Ferrari. Like the car. Great choice.&#8221; I said, &#8220;I am Kathleen Ferrari.&#8221; \u00a0He said, &#8220;I know. Great pen name.&#8221; I tried again. &#8220;No,&#8221; I said,&#8221;I was born Kathleen Ferrari. It&#8217;s my name.&#8221; He couldn&#8217;t get over that.<\/p>\n<p>I have been married twice. Both times I have taken my husbands&#8217; surname as my own. Shortly before I was married the first time, I needed to get a passport in a hurry. This required a trip into Boston to the federal building for immediate processing. My<a href=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/?p=108\" target=\"_blank\"> father<\/a> drove me &#8220;in town&#8221; as he, a Boston boy, always referred to the city. The plan was for me to take the train home. At the last moment, my dad decided he would stay with me. Luckily, as it turned out, because the birth certificate I had with me did not have the seal of the city where I was born embossed on it. \u00a0&#8220;This won&#8217;t work,&#8221; the man behind the counter told me. At the sight of my dismayed face, he looked at my father standing next to me and asked, &#8220;Is this your daughter?&#8221; \u00a0He then explained that if my father signed an affidavit swearing that I had been born where and when the birth certificate I had with me said, they would accept that as sufficient proof to process the passport request.<\/p>\n<p>We then had to wait for them to make the actual passport. I fretted that my name on the passport would not be the same as my soon-to-be married name. My father&#8217;s patience was wearing thin. He turned to me and said, &#8220;Listen. You&#8217;ll always be Kathleen Ferrari.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>I smile when I see the name on the books covers. He always believed I could be a writer. Using the name he bequeathed to me is my small way of thanking him for having faith.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1490\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1490\" style=\"width: 266px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Fday2.jpg\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-1490\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1490\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Fday2-266x300.jpg\" alt=\"My Dad\" width=\"266\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Fday2-266x300.jpg 266w, https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/03\/Fday2.jpg 508w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 266px) 100vw, 266px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1490\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">My Dad<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Is there a fictional character whose name you particularly like or will never forget?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;A rose by any other word would smell as sweet.&#8221; &#8211; \u00a0William Shakespeare&#8220;So where do you get the names for your characters?&#8221; People ask. The answer is, I beg, I borrow and I steal them. I also make them up. Here are some examples: Desmond Sbeerin I love the name Desmond. We have a dear [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[18,8,10,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1481","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-daughters","category-family","category-mac-women","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1481","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1481"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1481\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1506,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1481\/revisions\/1506"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1481"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1481"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kathleenferrari.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1481"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}